bombmaniac, Don’t feel it’s necessary to do anything through a shadchan. It’s good to have people to talk to though, as you never know where the girl you want may come from. As bpt said, networking is the key to success. You seem responsible and outgoing, so if you feel comfortable about it, why not try to find a girl yourself? Speak to people, do some searching, even online. The fact is, unfortunately, that someone from a difficult family situation may have to work harder at finding a match. I know this because I’m in the same boat. It’s a shame, because a lot of people in our situations are so nice, caring, responsible, and giving, and all other people look at is: Oooh, dead parent, divorced parents, OTD brother, sister with medical problems, no money…
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