gefen WAS joking. i had just mentioned that in a couple of threads i had mentioned something to you or about what you wrote, and my father got all funny and said (something like) “so this is what you’re doing on yeshiva world, talking to boys” (uh, and by the way, that is so not my type, at all.
sorry to alarm you. no harm meant. this thread was more of a family joke made public (which you can’t do unless ur totally anonymous, like here)
well hatzlacha!