“but is it bad to go into something knowing there is already an issue no matter how insignificant”
Rabbi G-when u find a someone with zero downsides let me know.
Untill then, Im goin to laugh that u think it is possible to find a perfect girl with zero issues no matter how insignificant.
Btw- funny story- I know someone who’s wife has a really awkward name. (hes sefardic- her name is yiddish) everytime he gets a brachah at shul 4 her (and ther married 20+ years now) He calls her “Ishti” She fuuuuumes..lol