“We had a man in seminary explain to us what was so bad about being untznius. (He didnt say anything inappropriate for single girls to hear) It scared a lot of girls who honestly did not know what they were doing wrong because it was never explained correctly in high school.”
I’m sorry, but I think that is the wrong approach in giving over the values, guidelines and essence of tznius. I actually think the best approach is when it does NOT come from Rabbis, or schools, or the CR…But rather, from the home. The parents themselves should live a life with tznius, and that should make a positive impression on their children.