Idk if this rly has to do w/ this but in general with shidduchim but its funny to see how when on paper and discussion e/1 agrees on the right priorities but when it comes to their own spouses or children, its another story. Easy to say about others but still, its uneasy to do. BUT, that is why this system is corrupt. Don’t just say it, act on it! But somehow every MIL seems to think she’s got to have the perfect DIL and FIL thinx he needs top SIL and really its all shallow. There can be boys who are “top” boys and wealthy and good learner but when it comes to real life they aren’t the greatest husbands (not necessarily bad) In general, I feel like these “top” statements are overrated and it means nothing. Just IMHO.
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