But to stam shmooze with her? “
SO you don’t do it. I enjoy speaking with my husband and vice versa. And my husband absolutely IS my buddy, my partner, the father of my children and Zaydy of our aineklach, my confidante, the person upon whom I depend and who depends on me. He has my back at all times, and I have his. And we love to talk to each other and strengthen the bond between us. He is an intelligent, loving person, with a great deal to say, sometimes about trivialities and sometimes about things that are more meaninful, and I hope he feels the same way about me. Maybe some people have nothing to say to each other, and that saddens me. But don’t quote chazal to “prove” that the rest of us are wrong.