popa_bar_abba- he is Rabbi Asher Shechter, very well respected and as you said the son-in-law of Rabbi Steinberg.
I can’t remember his name, but that sounds familiar. And he is very well respected. Also his father in law is. He does gittin. Lots of them.
(What I mean to say, is there was no disrespect intended. But I see now how it looks pretty bad. Mods: Please change “dude” to “rabbi”.)
Done. It was disrespectful, dude. -95