Guys! A little sympathy here!!
um: congratulations on your upcoming marriage. I wish you tons of hatzlochoh!
It will be absolutely great! Stupendously fantastic!! You have a beautiful life to look forward to, where you will be sharing your life with a partner. You will have a partner to confide in, and share the trials and tribulations of life. Oh, how beautiful!
Just enter into it with an open mind and an uncluttered spirit. Realize that from hereon you no longer have to bear the burden of life alone. And also realize and understand that no two people are alike and it will require a concerted effort to mold your life together into an exquisite form. It is a good exercise and should not be cause for pain and panic. Look forward to it and approach it head-on in a healthy and spirited manner.
Go for it, um! You can do it!