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oomis
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I don’t get any of this. If A shadchan was kind enough (paying basis or not) to help my child find the person he or she married, not only would they be paid SOME form of shadchanus, but they would have a seat of honor at the simcha! How could the mother not notice the shadchan was not at the wedding????????