Reply To: Caring about other people needs- Where to draw the line Home › Forums › Chesed › Caring about other people needs- Where to draw the line › Reply To: Caring about other people needs- Where to draw the line July 28, 2011 4:16 pm at 4:16 pm #791514 adorableParticipant in marriage you will be taking no matter what. dont worry about just being the giver.