Interesting. So you think singles are using hardship as an excuse to get out of doing mitzvos.
That’s quite a negative and harsh view. And not very realistic.
And there is a selfishness and a “me” orientation with single males.
No there isn’t. That is simply baseless.
Let me pose you a question: What if you are wrong? What if you are penina and you are hurting people who are already very hurt, for no good reason? (And you ain’t no penina, she was a tzadeikes who made one error.)