i definitely agree. and I don’t open up, but even the 2 hours of one date just talking stom, afterwards makes me feel like that was a waste and i just “hung out” with a guy – that was untznius. I know i am doing it for a purpose and this is what Hashem wants me to do, and it has to be this way in order to get married but it just feels wrong. I think I just have to look into the guy much harder and figure out before the date if it is really shayich.
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