I have to applaud Mr. 80 here. The Poskim discuss the issue, look at the relevent Teshuvos.
As per the OP, The Gemorah Keddushin applies:
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You are not interested in Halacha, but want to rile things up.
Ask your LOR, and Mods close the thread.