Read the later posts there.
I am saying:
1. Romance is not treif.
2. Your kids should know you love your wife. By showing it in your home.
3. Using the concept of romance in your connection with Hashem is absolutely appropriate, and I am unconvinced that romantic songs are inappropriate for that.
I am not saying:
That movies, TV, looking at shiktzas, goyishe music, facebook, twitter, YWN, Public Displays of Affection, are ok.