WIY: I agree with your rant completely. As it had been pointed out many times in the CR, to the gentiles (Yes, Stamper, they are gentiles – not “a goy is a goy” – one of them may save your life one day)a Jew is a Jew. Frum Jew are recognizable by their apparel in the same way the Amish and Indians are. Because they are highly recognizable as Jews, they should go out of their way
to be polite and improve the image they project (mannerwise) when they are out in public. I know that if I saw the “ice crean” incident, I would have said something. I use a handicapped parking pass and when I see people in handicapped spots without passes, I speak to them and have even left notes on their cars, so for me to speak to someone about ruining an unsold product, would not be a stretch.