Outside of learning, doing chessed, and all the things that a frum Yid does, I think the question was more about leisure time. So I would say, inviting friends over for a meal especially a BBQ, sitting on the dock of the bay (I feel a song coming on, and yes, there really IS a dock on the bay on which we sit), playing a good game of Trivial Pursuit (original Genus Edition), going for my weekly shared tuna bagel with my husband (which due to my newly-acquired elevated sugar, I am now re-dubbing yhe weekly tuna SALAD with my husband), and spending ANY amount of time with my delicious aineklach.
I also love to play my guitar or piano to unwind.