If I was in shidduchim, I would be nervous. People are already accusing some faceless, anonymous blogger of being mechalel shabbos and it isn’t for the purposes of shidduchim. Who knows what gets said about you, behind your back, the accusations and innuendo, when it comes to shidduchim. Maybe it is taking a long time because theyare trying to sort fact from fiction. On meeting the other person, be yourself. You don’t want to “act” any other way. It might be awakward at first, you grew up being separated from the opposite gender and are suddenly thrust into a situation where you are being asked to spend some time (an evening?) alone conversing with this person.
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