“Or does that just reveal our nasty side and show how insecure we are that we need to resort to putting the less fortunate down to feel better about ourselves?”
That’s exactly how it feels when a poster CONSISTENTLY gives tochacha without the ahavas chinam and good feeling that are necessary when rebuking, but rather (I quote) in a “disgusting” way.
Could you please catch someone doing something good?
You can do it. 🙂
TIA