This thread is ridiculous. Perhaps the girl should greet her date wearing a long white gown and a veil. If he likes what he sees, the date becomes a shidduch and if he doesn’t it could save a lot of time, trouble and money (and a courtship) for both parties. In some cultures the bride and groom do not meet until they reach the altar. From what I have read, these marriages work as well (in many cases, much better) as the “courtship” marriages do.
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