Unfortunately we live in a time where girls & I mean girls, not married women must use bait to catch the fish.
Are you kidding? They can be nichshal men “to catch the fish”? What’s the heter for that and who issued it?
BTW, in the Yeshivish community how many marriage do you personally know that came about from a girl dressing to be stared and met a boy (who was looking at the other side of the mechitza) at a wedding? Do you also suppose removing the mechitza at the wedding? How else will these girls looking (and dressed) to be looked at be able to “bait the boys” at the wedding with their choicy dress?
And, do you really expect married women to dress less attractive at a chasunah than unmarried women? (As a realistic matter, not idealistic.)