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we both had our struggles with dating….i dated only a few guys but some of them were long term, which is quite stressful. he dated many girls but many were only one time dates.
by saying its worth the wait i meant that it was worth going thru that dating experience learning and growing and getting to know myself and what i wanted and becoming a better person in turn. if i would have married the first or second guy idk where i would be?? prob wouldnt have graduated college, prob wouldnt have gotten as far in my career as i have or even taken the cpa exam….my point is that its normal to be nervous when dating but dont get discouraged or hung up if a date doesnt go well or doesnt live up to ur expectations….not everyone marries the first guy (im not saying to play the field but sometimes its not a bad thing to see what else is out there….).
u just gotta give it ur all and hashem will take care of the rest!!!
hatzlacha 🙂