its tough to say it too, btw. at my own wedding a friend of mine two years my elder (considered an elter’ bochur) came over to wish me mazel tov. because chassanim give brochos i felt i had to give him a real sincere brocho for a shidduch. for the record hes engaged. (yes im a bal moifes.) do you know how hard it was to look him in the eyes at my own wedding? dcan you understand how guilty i felt that for me it was B”H easy and for him took forever? it really hurt. so dont think that all those brochos are given so flippantly.
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