People excuse their bad behaviour because something out of their control happened to them. this gives them a right to be depressed or whatever.. Rabbi Belsky says that the gemara says that although someone was tripped by another person he is still responsible for the damages caused by whoever tripped on him because “??? ?? ????? ??? ???” “he should have gotten up and he didn’t” a person has to get up! even if he sunk into depression for a good reason he is responsible to get up!!
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