im very surprised that u can bring in outside food for ur guests..sometimes its better to let ur kids eat the nosh (im not judging but..)if it doesnt have a label on it then to imbarrase people it is still kosher of course it its in orginal package and the kids r old enough to know “we dont eat that”
but y made a big deal about it
i recendly made a simcha in brooklyn and sb asked me the hechser instead of looking into it she said i cant come to ur simcha cuz i dont know the hechser and i dont want to me cought in the hall …nobody else had a problem and i had many rabbanim there who did eat this one lady had a problem i was hurt fist cuz the funny thing is she would eat in my house…but then i was like who cares