Bewitched bothered bewildered, or B, if its OK to call you that – clearly the scenario here is different than that Mishpacha serial, as the original poster stated that her new brother-in-law is chassidish, and as we all know, Yossi Tillstein was litvish. If anything, this scenario is similar to the other Mishpacha serial, where the new brother-in-law joins the Mechlav chassidus.
Just saying.