IME, OOT is more laid back than in town.
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A few comments:
1. I could have written what you wrote under “B” myself. For weddings I like to dress a little “under” what everyone else might be doing. I’m guessing you’re also one of those with a good supply of long skirts (as opposed to short) and sweaters.
2. (E) I don’t think its a MO thing but today everyone loves labels. If you do ______ you’re obviously such and such. I think its just that someone with (I don’t want to put anyone down) ___ Hashkafos may take issue with movies, books etc (in and out of NY) and somehow people who don’t fit that mold are called MO. I think the group in between MO and Yeshivish somehow melted into the other two groups.
3. (G) From what I’ve seen, OOT there may also be the same “groups” but the borders are flexible.
4. (H) Sounds like a regular NY/everyone in a rush kind of thing.
Hows that for rambling?