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September 18, 2011 9:04 am at 9:04 am
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We try and keep it short and sweet when a date comes to pick up our girls. Later on if we can see they get on well together then we do all we can to fit in, discreetly! For me as a mother the most important thing is seeing a good ” chemistry” between my child and his/her date. If they are happy we are happy, we do not want anyone to fit in with us! Why? We are not marrying them, an individual who we nurtured but do not own is marrying them, therefore it is important they get on! Already we have a litvish son in law, and a happy new family of relations. Nothing beats the nachas of seeing your child happy!