i guess this is just something we are just going to disagree on. chinuch begins at home, not at school, and yes, it may be hard, but it is by no means impossible to do. to make blanket statements like the parents are selfish and they are killing their childrens neshamos is wrong, unfair, and quite hurtful.
how can you all be so quick to condemn? mod, i know you said no one condemned, but calling someone selfish and saying they are messing up their childs neshama are pretty strong fighting words. deciding to send a frum child to public schools is, in most cases, a very hard choice to make, and it involves a LOT of back and forth with a rav.