tickle toe eitus:
gavra, the position you attribute to the RY of Lakewood is incorrect.
OK, so what is their position? Any quotes (not Boich Svaras, once again). Why do they promote women working out of the home?
Also see the third comment made by a poster on this thread, a point you haven’t acknowledged.
Kol Kavod Bas Melech is Halacha, and we have dealt with it many times here in the CR. I have nothing to add to that point.
My question to you though, is does it apply now (either at all, or with the alternative being taking Tzedaka).