being a mom of married and shidduch aged children..
no one around here was ever under pressure to get married- I simply didnt put the pressure on.. and they got married in low 20’s and did not miss out on anything.
I dont call shadchanim- they call me ,and I listen,- if the shidduch is interesting I proceed to find out if not I dont.
You have GREAT attitude! when the right one will come along it should be pleasant and enjoyable! no need to push yourself around. People see you and know you!
Good luck