Reply To: not their fault

The Goq: My point exactly, its no ones fault: not my friends fault and not the brother cuz he’s not well. I apologize if i offended you.

zahavasdad: With all due respect, please read my original post again. The issue lies with his actions, not anything physical.

popa: I am worried about the influence, but more than that, i dont know what goes through a childs head when they hear someone yelling at their parents and calling them names. Thats what bothers me most. My children arent afraid of him because they are exposed to MR patients all the time. My husband works with mentally/emotionally disturbed people and we go on different outings with them often.

adorable: my children are very young. I dont think there is a way for them to understand. Thats a great suggestion though that i would’ve used if my children were old enough to understand. But try explaining the meaning of ’emotionally/mentally sick’ to a child and who knows what they’ll think…that its ok to be this way when you have a stomache ache or headache…know what i mean?

2scents: i dont know how to tell my friend that i cant come to her because her brother is an issue. It was not easy on her part to have to take this brother in, i dont want to make it harder…