Reply To: Life as the son of a Child Molester: My story

happiest, it must be so hard right now, but always know that you ARE strong. And don’t think that you are sounding ungrateful, because you the furthest thing from ungrateful! You have come so far, and sometimes, it feels like even though we’ve come this far, we think that there’s no way we’ll be able to fully climb the mountain and reach the other side. But that’s not true. We WILL, one day, be seeing all these struggles from the other side, and we will see how everything we’ve gone through has made us so great, and on such a high level, that we will be thankful for everything. Just know that every challenge G-d gives us is really a gift, disguised as a hardship. I know it’s difficult to see it that way, many times I also don’t, but if we really believe that everything is for the best, we will truly see these hardships, recognize them for what they really are, and use them to bring us even closer to G-d and on an even higher level.

Now, This person that is keeping his distance, did he just start doing this recently or was it going for a long time? If it’s recent, it could be due to something totally different, and maybe if you were to go over and talk to him, or let him know somehow through another means, maybe he would realize he’s been drifting away and come back to help. Is there another person that can help you work on everything besides him? And don’t forget, you have all of us here that are just waiting to offer anything we can. We all love you, sincerely care about you, and know how special and amazing you are.