Hi Syag. You are right. Evidently I am not on the level to be involved in such topics and keep myself clean. That was one of my complaints about those posts in that they drag us into dangerous territory, when usually all the other posting threads are informative, entertaining, and friendly.
I am going to try harder to stay away from this topic so I dont stumble into loshon hora. I am not going to play the “its ok because I am warning people” card. I will put that in Hashems hands. I am looking forward to taking an extra dip in the mikva Erev Shabbos, iy”H, for this reason.
Thank you for being concerned about me and calling me on this. I am committed to improving.