modche1-
Dr pepper I have to tell you that what nasi is doing at the matzev that it is right now the only thing that will help is for more people to get into shadchanis,ofcourse if you take it apart people can feel bad and insulted but i think more good will come out of this.There is no perfect solution but something has to get done asap
Don’t get me wrong- I do respect your opinion- but I disagree with you here.
We don’t need more shadchanim per se, we need more competent shadchanim and shadchanim who are more competent.
In my personal opinion, one major part of this crisis is that many good guys don’t want to deal with shadchanim. If they can have friends or neighbors suggest a shidduch for them why would they want to deal with professional shadchanim and have to put up with their despicable practices?
The ones who get hurt the most are the OOT girls who rely on professional shadchanim as a lifeline.