Ok. We agree on the following. There are not enough type X males available for all the females who want them.
What I am saying is that people should wake up and understand that type Y males are also perfectly fine husbands a bas yisroel and when that happens the available pool of males has suddenly increased. I think if this ever happens, many who hang out in the type X camp, will suddenly jump into the type Y camp as well seeing that they no longer have to play the part of a type X. While writing this I am reminded of a song written by a friend of my wife called “yeshiva charade”, a parody of the song yeshivishe reid, about the bachur who has no interest in learning three sedarim a day but does so for a shidduch, otherwise nobody will chase him.