You want to be a real male? Then act like one and apologize. Only cowardly males continue with their bashing instead of stepping back and realizing they did something wrong, and apologizing.
Wow. We must have female mods if this got through. If it was up to me, she’d be blocked this second.
Anyway, I don’t care what you think makes a real man. That only works against your husband or other men who are trying to impress you, because he cares what you think of him.
But I don’t know you, so I don’t care what you think of me. So I don’t need to buy into your opinions of what makes a real man.
I am free to just be a real man. Real men stick up for themselves when they are correct, unless there is a girl they like who disagrees.