lkwdgirl 1 -Leave it up to the therapist. They both need individual and marital therapy. That’s their call, not his, not yours and not anybody from the CR peanut gallery.
I know s/o who was told by his family to divorce his wife (here in Lakewood) -maybe we are talking about the same couple? When I heard about it – I said those two? They don’t need a divorce -they need for s/o to take their kids away from them!