Thanks everyone, Hashem has been very kind. I dont want to interfere with the thread or topic so I will step back.
Happiest, I am not sure what you meant about being bothered by the comment, and I certainly have no problem at all with the concept of someone seeing the whole subject differently than we did. It wasn’t even the subject at hand that I was commenting on. I was just getting stuck (as I often do) on the idea of not being accepting that other peoples opinions may be valid when different, and telling them they are incorrect. Please continue with the topic, it is very important. And thanks again.