Health, reading your posts I wholeheartedly sympathise with you.
I actually think all of us who bother to read and share our opinions on the CR would be the sort of people who would support your sense of outrage and be indignant with any religious Jewish organisation that did not help a young Jew to find a caring environment in which to learn and flourish, part of our religious belief lies in supporting one another, especially our children.
None of us know the future, but nothing in life is set in stone, really hope someway this situation can be resolved soon. Wishing you well.