My Take: Thank you for your kind words. Yes Baruch Hashem that patient is Gezint. We have so much to be thankful for. Hashem should help ALL cholei yisroel mamash bekoriv!
The stories from that period over ten years ago are still very painful to me. I wish I could work on it more to forget….
The ikar is when we do a chesed for others we know how NOT to do it, don’t we?
Wishing your family member a complete refuah sheleima!!