DaasYochid, I think I can put what Aries is saying into different words. There is a standard cookie cutter we have created. If someone doesn’t meet up with that shape, then what do you do with the dough that is left over?
Kids of divorce for one are automatically in a sub category of normal. Is is because we are judging them? AND create the problem, Or is it just that they are more at risk and they fall away?