You say he doesn’t have many close friends. What are the personalities of those he does have? That might give you a clue as to what type of personality he is compatible with. Quiet, to a degree, is ok, but it sounds like there’s no social stimulation or growth with him. Maybe he would benefit from a social skills group where a trained professional could observe him in action. I agree that major alterations to his personality are unlikely, but if he’s continuously rejected because of his silence, he might be choosing a future alone unless he’s willing to become the type f person that people want to be with. He needs to recognize if his personality is an impediment to finding a spouse. Does he think he has an issue with his personality or that he just hasn’t met the right one? If he has a string of rejections behind him all because of personality “issues” he may need to own up to that rather than searching endlessly for that perfect match.
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