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January 3, 2012 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm
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cherrybim
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“Aren’t I supposed to try? Do my hishtadlut? We are not given our bsherts, we earn them?”
No, not like parnoseh. For shidduchin, you don’t have to make an hishtadlut; it is a done deal and it will happen regardless.