1- Want kesher with grandparents and it could be infrequent if far away
2- could be costly. airlines wanna be paid for tix. I have a friend who as the family grew saw his family less and less because it was too expensive to fly everyone out
4- Could be significant hashkafa differences
3- Small family from one side wants to be near family
Many good reasons…….
5- can’t stand someone with good midos…………