snjn: Poor girls/fat girls etc getting left behind is a result of the numbers not a result of attitudes.
I the poor girls/fat girls got married then other girls would get stuck. That what happends when the pool of available girls is far larger then the pool of available boys.
HOw many get stuck is a result of numbers
Which specific girls get stuck will be a result of numberouls factors and attitudes, but in the macro picture it’s highly irrelevant.
YW MOD- There is no little data to support that the crisis is worse in the long term kollel yeshivish community than in other communities.