+1. well written.
in the same thought, i stopped reading certain threads when i see certain tones/posts. other threads I’ve seen have ‘arguments’ that are so different. the posters disagree, they talk it out and its over! (i see this mostly in halacha based threads where 1 poster brings a proof/source and the other concedes). but the threads that dissolve into name calling and people bashing should be cleaned out/closed asap