Eliezer:
I wonder why Organizations like Bonei Olam, Yad Eliezer,, Rccs etc. etc. don’t take the cop out route of “why tread on hashems plans”.
After all Hashem decrees who should rachaman litzlan be sick, poor, have infertility issues.
To be clear: on the individual/micro level, ABSOLUTELY you are correct.
On the macro/communal level, you could not be more wrong.
Your statment
“There IS a Zivug for everyone. Bas Kol Yotzai V’Omer Ploni L’Plonis…” It’s not just a saying – it’s a fact!”
Indicates that four+ years on and you still don’t get it….
Hashem did NOT decree that boys should begin dating at 23 and girls at 19.
He allowed us to mess up.
Please don’t blame HIM for our mess ups, and please don’t expect him to do a miracle when it is within our ability to rectify our mistakes.
NASI is focused on the macro and it behooves the community to do anything and everything they can to help alleviate this crisis. If you don’t support the specific tactics that a specific project is employing, by all means, work at it from a different angel.
To suggest that we do nothing and “have bitachon” that is on fake bitachon on yenems chesbon and a chazar treif hashkafa.
That is done after any and all avenues of effort have been expended on others behalf.
For ones self you can have bitachon, for others you must do do do do do (especially when it’s a biderech hateva sitation that is so easily rectifable).