Btw I am currently in Kollel in BMG and I actually agree with a lot of what has been said here. I think that kollel just isn’t for everyone. The bottom line is that everybody does it (and not just the best guys) because that is what is accepted nowadays. But isn’t it better to follow this trend than another one?? I agree that a lot of guys should not be in Kollel for as long as they are, and I think the expectation for In-Laws/Wife to fully support a family is crazy, what happened to tnai kesuba??? Isnt the husband supposed to give his wife and family the mezonos and not vice versa?? But i still think that IDEALLY Kollel is great- as long as guys would be more responsible and realize that yes believe it or not…. ITS THEIR ACHRAYUS TO MAKE A LIVING and not their in laws or wife’s. And anything that they do get from their parents/in laws should be extra.
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