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November 3, 2011 10:04 pm at 10:04 pm #847741
Ofcourse
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aries, Stop interviewing everyone and then choosing the cream of the crop to work with. That is what shadchanim do.

HUH!?!?

I have made a number of Shidduchim. I am terribly insulted by your broad stroke attitude above. NO, it’s absolutely false in 90% of the cases. This is possibly the case with the “shotty” Shadchanim, who charge exorbitant fees, and who make it known that they ony service the “shotty” oilem !!!!

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I still say as long as we dont even out the numbers of available guys and girls, we will have frum older girls leaving frumkeit in increasing numbers, either overtly or covertly. Can you blame them? They dont want to live like nuns forever.

Any other attempts are flimsy band-aids.