Quickly, before Shabbos:
BTGuy, I don’t fully understand your post, so forgive me if I got you wrong, but it seems that you agree that the shadchanim should suggest older girls, and the boys are wrong for turning down such suggestions. This NASI initiative motivates the shadchan to redt the older girls, which they otherwise would not have (because it’s more time consuming), and it only works for the boys who would agree to go out with an older girl. you numbers are slightly off (the program starts at 22) but the idea is that more motivation is needed to redt the 24 year old than the 22 year old.